Its been quite some time, I wrote something in blogs.  Its not because , I dont have any thing to write , but I was busy with family and work.

Now when I decided to write something many topics coming in my mind to write about . which one should  I take now to write ?

 

About corruption  ???    Corruption every where ? from top to bottom ?  aah…. If I start writing about it , I can write a book on it. I’m so much frustrated with corruption.

 

About diminishing civilisation ???? yes .. we are going back to Jungle Raj. very hard to find people respecting basic social rule. Every body is running for his own . The only difference between humans and Animals is “Society”. And when social rules are loosing their ground … it is end of civilization.

but  this also would need time and patience to write about it.

 

I have a lot to talk about attacks on Indian mythology, culture and religion. Several people, inspired with western culture and lifestyle, trying to put down everything related to Indian Culture.  Worst part is, they don’t know much in detail about Indian mythology and culture. They don’t have rights to comment about some thing , which they don’t know .  Today’s world is ruled by media.  And whoever is having more influence in media , gets more coverage. What’s right or wrong is not matter anymore.   I’m not able to understand, from where to start on this topic . So just keeping it aside for now. But sure , I’ll write on it very soon.

 

62nd Independence day of India is now 3 weeks away.. All Indians are going to celebrate with proud. But why I’m still thinking, are we really independent ? Look at our position in Global economy and politics .. I feel , we are still slave. Lots of people are dying due to food crises , but we are still exporting food items to earn Dollars. Our Economists graduated in London, learned British or Global Economy. and now we are economical slave of other powerful countries.  I need to think on it some more time to stabilize my thoughts on this.  I don’t want to hurt anyone.but I want everyone to think upon it. Is this time to celebrate it proudly ? or to find real independence.

 

Our Education system…… hmmm … what quality of education we are delivering ? many of our institutes are known around the globe for professional studies. but looking at behaviour of  people passed out from here … I feel uneducated people are more mannered.  We are just producing labours for globe . we are not delivering proper education . 

 

Am talking about only negative points. Am I a pessimist ? nope.. I don’t think so.  I’m Optimistic.  I’m sure world can be changed… it may take long time … but can be changed.  Apart of our strength, we must know and acknowledge our weakness . Then only we can win over our weakness . I’m pointing these weak points with optimism that we can win some day.

 

some more hot topics boiling my blood … cant write with this mind.    I’ll be busy next 3 weekends.  I’ll come back with fresh mind and then will try to write soon.

 

 

 

naa shivaale, naa kaleesaa, naa haram jhoote hai.
bas yahii sach hai, ke tum jhoothe ho ham jhoote hai.

hamane dekhaa hi nahi bolate unko ab tak.
kaun kahataa hai ke patthar ke sanam jhoote hai.n

unase miliye to khushii hotii hai unase milakar
shahar ke doosare logo.n se jo kam jhoote hai

kuchh to hai baat, tahareero.n me.n tasir nahii.n
jhoote fanakaar nahi.n to kalam jhoote hai

In this world , no one is perfect .  And this imperfection  does not allow us to accept the fact that we are not perfect.   We live in the illusion that we are perfect and what ever we do,  is right and perfect. We think that we cannot make mistakes.

 May be , what we are doing is right/perfect from our point of view , but same thing may be wrong/hurting for others.  We don’t think from other’s point of view and never think that as a mistake.   In this way, we keep on committing mistakes, without knowing them .  Sometimes,  we understand our mistakes, but we do not accept them .  Some times our ego doesn’t allow to accept mistakes as we think we are perfect and we can not make mistakes.  

We cannot correct our mistakes, unless we accept the mistakes.  If our mistake hurts someone , a few words of apology /sorry can heal the wounds . But we can apologies only when we accept our mistakes.

Definitely, we always cannot take care of every one’s point of view, but should we ignore our family members or loved ones ?    I think, family members are always caring us, and always willing best for us. If we keep on ignoring family members, one time we would be left alone …. And worst would be the case when we need someone around , we might find ourselves alone, and no one would be around.  

If our family member points out our mistakes, we should be ready to accept it and try to correct them. If it hurts someone , we should try to heal their wounds assuring them for not repeating same mistakes again.

Some times, we spend most of our time in collecting friends around us and spending time for fun with them … but in this process, we start ignoring our family members, thinking they are always around us.  But ignorance might hurt them , and that may cause them to stay away from  us.  We may see physical presence of them, but warm feelings may be missing.  And friends are not there with us forever.  Friends  leaves us alone for their family.  Are we really want to hurt our loved ones for such friends ?    

Relations are always bonded with emotions, not with practical requirements.  We do not leave our old parents, even they are not is position to help us ..  why ????  Because our emotions are bonded with them. Physically /practically we are not dependent on them , so should we leave them ? ???    No way, we cannot leave them . Our emotions  never would allow us to leave them.   And it is always good to have some sort of dependencies between family members.  This gives additional strength to relation bonding.  In young age, we possess lots of strength and love to live independently. Also we make lots of friends,  who are also independent from family. But soon we see the friends getting busy with their own family , but we still not realize the truth. And keep on committing the same mistake of ignoring our loved ones.  

 If by any of our actions, we are hurting  our family members, we should be ready to say sorry to them.  May be , we are correct from our point of view,  but a “sorry” can give comfort in family and increase love and peace.  Missing apology may not break the family relations, but may leave unhealed wounds for long time.

Accepting our mistakes is not a weakness , but is a great strength and lead to greatness in person.  So we should be leave our ego besides and accept the mistakes.  

This is the only way , we can save ourselves from making more mistakes , even bigger mistakes.

 

I’m also part of this imperfect world and so  neither I’m perfect nor my thoughts.  So if any of these thought  hurts any one,  I apologies.

 

tamannaon ke bahlave meiN aksar aa hi jaate haiN
kabhi hum chot khaate haIn kabhi hum muskuraate haiN

ham aksar dostoN ki bewafee seh to lete haiN
magar hum jaante haiN dil hamaare TooT jaate haiN

kisi ke saath jab beete huye lamhoN ki yaad aayee
thaki aakhoN meiN askhoN ke sitaare jhilmilaate haiN

ye kaisa istheyaaki deed aur kaisi majboori
kisi ki bazm tak jaa jaa ke hum kyoon laut aate haiN

 

 

 INVESTMENT

We know about past , we live our present , and  we plan our  Future.   To realize the plan for future,  we save money  so as they available when required.   If we have enough money  for planned future , we just save them. But if  they are not enough, we plan to increase.   This makes  earning  as part of our future plans.

Other than basic needs of life, we spend our money , keeping  in mind.  What we are getting now  and how it may  impact  our future plans.   Every other spending needs a balance, to get proper value for present and good impact in future .

 If we can’t keep balance , should we give more importance to present  ? or to  Future ?  This is matter of personal choice.  But I would say,  we should give more importance to future.   We just know our future  plans,  but not the future itself.  Future is always full of surprises.   We  should give good importance to Future ,  to keep ourselves ready for any surprise.

 As soon as  we start thinking and planning about future, we starts thinking about earning  and savings.  Saving is not just keeping extra money safe, but may  require to control our expenses as well.  Saving money is not available for present, we cannot  use that, and we consider that almost like nil.  But we are assured that when we need in future, it will be with us.

Basic meaning of investment is “to  save now, for better returns in future “ .    Investor considers  4 points, before any investment. 

·         What he has to save now.

·         What he can save now

·         When would be return

·         What would be return

For most of the investors, most important point is “ What would be return” .  This means, if  he gets better returns, he can compromise with other 3 factors.  For good return, he can   pay more; he can cut down other expense  to put more in investment   and he will wait for long time.  

Some of the investments looks very attractive  and promising for  future , but end up with negative returns in future.  We need to be very careful about such investments. Because these not only consumes our saving, but  our future plans as well.   People who thinks less about future or  living more in presence, end up losing  with such investments. 

Also,  a good investor live is present in such a way that it does not impact negative on the future plans.  Off course, it requires lot of compromises, but  these compromises are best investments for future.

REAL INVESTMENT FOR LIFE

Money is not the only  thing we need for our future plans.  Our future plan is built around “us”.  What I meant by “us” here  is “myself and people around me” or “ you and people around you”. So other most important  part of future plans is “People” and relations.

We could find all sort of people around us. Some people, we just know them; some people we  like,  some we don’t like; some people we hate and some we don’t hate.   Some people we love and some we don’t love; some people we care for and some we don’t care. some who know us ; some who like us  and some who don’t like us;  some who loves us and some don’t love us; Some care for us  and some who don’t care.

May be, some more type of people around us, linked directly or indirectly , becomes part of our future plans.   We can compare our relations with these people, in terms of Saving and Investments.

When we are happy and enjoying the fun, we can find a lot people around us.  They  would be coming along with us, for party, movie, tracking , disco, nightclub , shopping or elsewhere we get fun. We also like their company , as we are enjoying  all these fun.  If we live in present  and don’t think about our future and plans, we like company  of these fun loving people.  They please us  and we please them.  Till the time fun goes on, no one talks about your pain,  and not bother to read your heart and emotions. 

We get lost in world of this fun and this becomes part of our life.  And some times , we don’t even know that it may impact negatively on our futures and plans,  if we are NOT ready to compromise these fun.   As I  believe,  future is always full of surprises and when it comes with some down surprises ,  fun loving people would always be  gone.  

 

We also find some people, those who are not  with us for fun, but they are always available when we need them or we are alone and sad.   We love them or not, they love us. We care or not , they care us very much.   They comes to help us, whether  we need help or not.   Mostly, we ignore such people or don’t even look for them even they are around us,  till the time we are part of fun loving life.  And once we addicted to  fun life, we keep on ignoring them and at some point of time we lose them.  But these people never leaves you , as they love and care for you.  But we cannot afford to lose them , they are the real  SAVING of life, as they would be available when you need . 

 If these type of people are very close to us, they may appear as possessive. But they might be caring or loving us so much, they cannot see you getting in any trouble and try to control your life.  So we should not ignore this, but we should enjoy the love hidden in this possessiveness, Just like swan drinks pure milk, leaving behind mixed water.

Who are these people .. these could be our friend, our relative or anyone around us.   We need to find these people and spend time with them to save our relations as this would be best investment for long term.

Yes,  it is an  Investment,  because to  get returns in long term, we need to save/cut down our fun from present life.   We need to think and decide , which of our current activities/current relations  may impact our future . 

We might be having many friends around us. But only  a few TRUE friends,  for whom we should invest our relations for Future.  And be sure.. this investment never give negative return.

Remember, a TRUE friend is not the one we love most. But one who love us most.  Find a TRUE friend .. and live happy ever.